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    Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

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    ON a walk to grab my morning coffee I set out with the intention of brainstorming how I wanted to write this article. Wondering how I could best describe the influence Bob Murphy has had on me in this very short time and why it has been so profound.

    As I was walking across the road, I found it funny that I was thinking about Bob and this article, and coincidentally the coffee shop I was headed toward was called “Two:Bob”.

    So I took a picture of the name and walked in, ordered my strong, three-quarter flat white and sat down, then began to type a text to Bobby. With nothing but snide intentions, it went: “Can’t imagine what having two Bob’s would be like . . . one is more than enough mate!”.


    But before I hit send, it hit me, Bob’s influence has been two-fold, represented by his physical presence, and then a more spiritual one, an insight into the legacy he’s leaving behind.

    The physical presence of Bob is the one that can inspire you into action, can wrap his arm around you in a time of need and with the same level of reverence steer you back in the right direction if he catches you straying.

    Over time I’ve understood that his pre-game addresses speak to his values of heart, trust and humility, which I sometimes think would resemble that of a captain marshaling his troops in the heat of battle.

    Rich with emotion, the results of his inspiration stem from his understanding of people, and himself, which I think allows him to connect with individuals on a deep level.

    It’s because of this that I think my relationship with Bob would be different to the next person’s, he gets me, he gets Easton Wood, he gets Luke Dahlhaus, he knows which buttons to push and which levers to pull.

    When I walked into the cafe it got me thinking about how Bob’s influence is just as strong when he isn’t physically present (hence Two:Bob). I don’t have to scan too far back to find an example of when this occurred because throughout most of the 2016 season, and even more so during the finals campaign, Bob’s presence was obvious.

    He may not have been on the field, but the foundations had been laid, so firmly that our behaviours were driven by his echoes.


    What he did for us last year was incredibly selfless. He must have been torn emotionally because of course he wanted to be a part of it, part of the build-up to a premiership.

    But what he had to do was stay motivated in our eyes at least, he had to give off a scent that he was OK with his situation so therefore everyone else had to be OK.


    That is so much easier said than done and he did it magnificently.

    As part of writing this article I spoke with president Peter Gordon about our captain. They have a very strong relationship and he told me about a conversation he had with Bob at the end of 2014.



    While it is the common perception that the club turned to Bob to be the new captain after all that had occurred, it was in fact the complete opposite.


    Bob approached Peter and said it was the right time for him to step forward and take on the captaincy. He said the club had to be brought together and he was the one to do it. And soon enough our player vote confirmed this. Bob would be our captain.


    One of his major strengths is drawing people in and bringing them together, another example of that came in the lead-up to the finals series last year.

    On this particular day when we walked into our players’ meeting, there was a large question mark written on the board.


    Bob had put it there.
    The question he was asking was simple - how good could we be?

    The gist of his message was that he wanted us to look at it collectively, we were heading in the right direction having made the finals but we had to think about how good we could be.


    He also wanted us to question ourselves personally, think about how good I could be? How good the person sitting next to me could be?



    Bob’s words and presence possess weight. When he says things he means them. One of my greatest football memories is when Bob told me he was proud of me.


    We’d finished our final few days of pre-Christmas training and relaxed with a few quiet beers together at a pub in South Melbourne. As the night wound up, Bob and I shared an uber ride home together.


    Over that last few days of training the team established our leadership group for the upcoming season. I was a new addition, but as a third-year player he may have sensed in me a slight nervousness at the news.

    Bob told me he was proud of me and that nothing should change, that the person I am is what the players respected, therefore to continue as I was. I remember feeling goosebumps during some of the conversation, because it was genuine, it was real and it’s this reassuring influence that makes Bob Murphy one of the greatest men I’ve met.

    Bob loves Paul Kelly and there is a line in his song Before Too Long that goes “every dog will have his day”, which I think is a proverb for people having good luck in their lives at some point.


    As Bob plays his 300th game next weekend I think he would say he feels lucky to have played so many games, but in turn, we have been lucky . . . lucky to see him play so many, and lucky to get to know him.

    So Bob, enjoy your day.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    The Bob love will be immense this week. Hopefully we do him proud.
    "Loves a scrap....oh yeah & he's a pretty handy footballer as well"

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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by SlimPickens View Post
    The Bob love will be immense this week. Hopefully we do him proud.
    So will the hate. The tall poppy syndrome is alive and well.
    For those who were always the underdogs and wore it as a badge of honour.

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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by aker39 View Post
    So will the hate. The tall poppy syndrome is alive and well.
    Not so sure about that . He has been brilliant in the Media and is very well appreciated by all supporters and media ..
    Their are players who just have it .. Eg Pavlich, Johnson, Roughead. These are honest , silky skilled, clean players with good personalities that even the media won't put down. Rare but he is one.
    Bring back the biff

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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Two remarkable men. Our next captain paying tribute to the current one.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    It''s been a bit of a journey for Murphy to make the 300 games but we have been blessed to have a quality player out our club. It's an important event for our club to honor him with a win.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    His come along way from a very skinny number 22.
    Don't piss off old people
    The older we get the less "LIFE IN PRISON" is a deterrent...

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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by Hotdog60 View Post
    His come along way from a very skinny number 22.
    Who slotted that goal at Optus oval to get us within a goal of Carlton and set up a famous win in his very first AFL match. That game is still my favourite home and away win of all time. I've never seen opposition supporters crying in frustration the way I did that day. It was glorious.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by bornadog View Post
    So I took a picture of the name and walked in, ordered my strong, three-quarter flat white and sat down, then began to...
    I love you Marcus but come on mate.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by Twodogs View Post
    Who slotted that goal at Optus oval to get us within a goal of Carlton and set up a famous win in his very first AFL match. That game is still my favourite home and away win of all time. I've never seen opposition supporters crying in frustration the way I did that day. It was glorious.
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    For those who were always the underdogs and wore it as a badge of honour.

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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Looking forward to next Saturday afternoon home game at Etihad. Bob has been such a great servant of our club and I hope that we can get the flag this year again with him in the team.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by Happy Days View Post
    I love you Marcus but come on mate.
    Would you have preferred him to order an Almond Milk Decaf Macchiato?

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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by westdog54 View Post
    Would you have preferred him to order an Almond Milk Decaf Macchiato?
    Babychino with marshmallows.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Quote Originally Posted by aker39 View Post
    So will the hate. The tall poppy syndrome is alive and well.
    Only on Big Footy is there an irrational level of Bob hate - in the real world the love is not quite universal but not far off.
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    Re: Bob Murphy plays his 300th game and Marcus Bontempelli pays tribute to his captain

    Great milestone, probably just behind Doug and Granty as the most skilled player I've seen .

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