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  • The bulldog tragician
    Senior Player
    • Apr 2013
    • 1964

    Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

    Originally posted by bulldogtragic
    I agree, players come and go. Nothing but love on here for Jack for example.

    Bailey has to own his decisions and behaviour. A lot of us, me included, have/had serious mental health issues. That?s no shield for his actions, decisions and behaviour. It might help add context to certain aspects, but he?s an adult that has to own his behaviour. If I and my former emergency services colleagues went around behaving like he has and then said ?PTSD - don?t say anything? I wouldn?t expect a free pass. It seems when he?s flying it?s because he?s a gun and great brand manager. When he?s appearing selfish or rude or entitled then his mental illness is an issue to be raised.

    I don?t wish any harm or distress. But frankly, he?s created this situation. His choices are where we are at now. He has to own it and I?m sure he does. And bringing up mental illness to me seems a little offensive (not that you intend it at all) that those with mental illness challenges are somehow incapable of being held to the standards of others. His decision to skip a game and hang out with Margot Robbie?s brother for instance has what to do with anything other than that?s what he wanted to do. Getting annoyed he wouldn?t be selected for finals while not committing to the club is him wanting his cake and eating it too.

    I?m happy to accept that he has challenges and that informs some context of things. But some sort of blanket free pass, no. We all have to own our actions and choices. Mental illness sucks big time, but working through it is to understand it?s not an excuse or shield from the consequences of our choices or actions.

    Sorry, you?ve hit a spot that triggers the real world me. So many (sometimes mildly famous/infamous) **** up in life and then try to blame mental illness as a shield. Which just perpetuates the stigma on the rest of us. Sometimes people with mental illness can be selfish dicks at the same time. Sometimes it is the sole reason. In this case I believe we are here right now because of the choices he?s made and he has to own them or at least the discussion that he should own them is fair game.
    Go well, BT, and thanks for sharing. The consequences of mental illness are devastating to an individual and their family. The way the term ‘mental health challenge’ is sometimes deployed of late can diminish the anguish many go through. I’m glad to hear things are better now for you.
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    • jeemak
      Bulldog Legend
      • Oct 2010
      • 21512

      Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

      Originally posted by Pleather Sole
      Take it to yourself Mr Gatekeeper. So what if you think you understand it all and what will happen with people. My take on the situation is as valid as the next member. I reckon a lot of the anger is misplaced and it wouldn't be so vicious or so much time dwelling on and sticking the boot in if we were preparing for and getting excited about playing an AFL final this weekend. But the bile has to go somewhere if a young man's behaviour doesn't fit your worldview. The club has let me down, the board, Bevo, the ridiculous selections, not a young guy who wasn't even allowed to play. Anyone would think he slept with their missus the way 'people' are obsessing. Its part of my take so don't tell me to shut up Gatekeeper. Call the mods PleatherSole is not agreeing with the baying mob!! Diddums man. Tuck it under big shot.
      Dude I've derailed enough threads in my time, so hardly care if you want to have a crack at derailing this one. Just saying there's actually threads dedicated to getting into Beveridge without having to accuse people of conflating their disappointment with him or the season, with their feelings towards Bailey Smith requesting a trade in this one.

      Some kudos though, I really did enjoy this bit - Its part of my take so don't tell me to shut up Gatekeeper. Call the mods PleatherSole is not agreeing with the baying mob!! Diddums man. Tuck it under big shot. Keep up the good work.
      TF is this?.........Obviously you're not a golfer.

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      • Pleather Sole
        Rookie List
        • Jan 2024
        • 242

        Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

        Originally posted by jeemak
        Dude I've derailed enough threads in my time, so hardly care if you want to have a crack at derailing this one. Just saying there's actually threads dedicated to getting into Beveridge without having to accuse people of conflating their disappointment with him or the season, with their feelings towards Bailey Smith requesting a trade in this one.

        Some kudos though, I really did enjoy this bit - Its part of my take so don't tell me to shut up Gatekeeper. Call the mods PleatherSole is not agreeing with the baying mob!! Diddums man. Tuck it under big shot. Keep up the good work.
        Derail? Jaysus, add too. Different perspective. Jeemak decides what goes where...... �� can't express other layers, must all pile on Baz. F**K me thats dire. So if I go on another thread dedicated to piling on Bevo and the club then I can talk about how Bailey is copping unwarranted bile there, but not on the thread about Bailey? �� I have theory dude. Go put your parking tickets on unexpired meters elsewhere.

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        • Uninformed
          Draftee
          • Jan 2023
          • 763

          Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

          Bailey Smith has given the club (and its supporters) immeasurably more than the club has given him.

          He didn't pick the club.

          They picked him. And for good reason.

          Exceptional talent and a lifetime of dedication, seriously hard work, discipline and training to become the elite sportsman he is.

          Every game he played he made the team better.

          For 105 quality games.

          The club gives him a few dollars for a few years, until it doesn't suit them to continue (think Jackson Mac.) The payment is actually nothing compared with the life energy an elite athlete gives the club.

          Whether he wants to stay or go is up to him. Not everyone wants to be a one club player.

          Whether he meets the punter's standards on everything - from having a few up to regular attendance at Church - is his business not that of the great moral majority.

          Give the guy a break and be grateful for what he has done for our team.

          Wish him well and look to the future development of our squad, those that love being where they are.

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          • SonofScray
            Coaching Staff
            • Apr 2008
            • 4191

            Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

            Yeah, nah.


            GAGF Baz.
            Time and Tide Waits For No Man

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            • Hotdog60
              Bulldog Team of the Century
              • Aug 2009
              • 5808

              Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

              I couldn't give a brass razoo if he stayed or went but what pisses me off is the clubs can't get a fair price on development of the talent they have at their disposal.
              Players nominating clubs that aren't in a position to fairly compensate irks me.
              Wasn't Brisbane using their 1st round pick up so we didn't get it for Dunkley. What's not to say Geelong go early in the trade and offload their pick 20 or what ever it may be.
              Don't piss off old people
              The older we get the less "LIFE IN PRISON" is a deterrent...

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              • jazzadogs
                Bulldog Team of the Century
                • Oct 2008
                • 5535

                Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                Originally posted by Pleather Sole
                Take it to yourself Mr Gatekeeper. So what if you think you understand it all and what will happen with people. My take on the situation is as valid as the next member. I reckon a lot of the anger is misplaced and it wouldn't be so vicious or so much time dwelling on and sticking the boot in if we were preparing for and getting excited about playing an AFL final this weekend. But the bile has to go somewhere if a young man's behaviour doesn't fit your worldview. The club has let me down, the board, Bevo, the ridiculous selections, not a young guy who wasn't even allowed to play. Anyone would think he slept with their missus the way 'people' are obsessing. Its part of my take so don't tell me to shut up Gatekeeper. Call the mods PleatherSole is not agreeing with the baying mob!! Diddums man. Tuck it under big shot.
                While we wait for diddums to find it and tuck it, can I address this...

                Most people have been pissed off at Bailey Smith for much of the last 12 months, if not longer, since it became abundantly clear that he planned to leave the club at the end of his contract despite everything the club has done and continued to do to support him. And his official trade announcement was only ever going to come after our season ended.

                Basically as far as I can see the anger towards Bailey has nothing to do with our coaching or finals performance. It's because he's a self-entitled twit who puts himself into high pressure high exposure situations regularly while saying these are not good environments for him.

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                • Bornadog
                  WOOF Clubhouse Leader
                  • Jan 2007
                  • 65855

                  Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                  Originally posted by jazzadogs
                  While we wait for diddums to find it and tuck it, can I address this...

                  Most people have been pissed off at Bailey Smith for much of the last 12 months, if not longer, since it became abundantly clear that he planned to leave the club at the end of his contract despite everything the club has done and continued to do to support him. And his official trade announcement was only ever going to come after our season ended.

                  Basically as far as I can see the anger towards Bailey has nothing to do with our coaching or finals performance. It's because he's a self-entitled twit who puts himself into high pressure high exposure situations regularly while saying these are not good environments for him.
                  I am pissed off we are losing a 23 year old with talent and we have to now replace him. I have never felt he bought into the club and always thought he was thinking he is better than a Western Suburbs club.

                  He doesn't want to play for us so he can go get stuffed.
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                  • jeemak
                    Bulldog Legend
                    • Oct 2010
                    • 21512

                    Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                    Originally posted by jazzadogs
                    While we wait for diddums to find it and tuck it, can I address this...
                    I will never tuck it in!
                    TF is this?.........Obviously you're not a golfer.

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                    • Happy Days
                      Hall of Fame
                      • May 2008
                      • 10058

                      Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                      I knew it was actually Coach Bad but was too scared to admit it.
                      - I'm a visionary - Only here to confirm my biases -

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                      • The Adelaide Connection
                        Coaching Staff
                        • Jan 2009
                        • 2729

                        Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                        Wouldn't it be a hell of a plot twist if he re-signed and he wanted to stay the whole time (and was just jockeying for more years or slightly better coin or whatever).

                        Watching this thread would be A+ viewing.

                        Ps Don't @ me with reasons why this isn't happening, I know he is gone.

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                        • Pleather Sole
                          Rookie List
                          • Jan 2024
                          • 242

                          Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                          Originally posted by jeemak
                          I will never tuck it in!
                          For the record, my jest request was to tuck it under but I do appreciate the extra information about never tucking it in.

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                          • azabob
                            Hall of Fame
                            • Sep 2008
                            • 15177

                            Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                            Originally posted by Grantysghost
                            Yes it doesn't exclude him from being a douche they're not mutually exclusive.

                            Just feels at the moment there's a massive pile on happening and Tim Watson what a complete gherkin. He should know better than to stir shit up like that.
                            For one I am glad Tim Watson said something.

                            The media narrative is painting the dogs as the perpetrator in this whole saga. What media pile on is happening with Smith?

                            Bailey was played out of position, so he is justified in leaving.

                            No mention of the other stuff Smith has been up to or the support the dogs have given him.
                            Last edited by azabob; 13-09-2024, 08:02 AM.
                            More of an In Bruges guy?

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                            • Yankee Hotel Foxtrot
                              Bulldog Team of the Century
                              • Jan 2007
                              • 8876

                              Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                              Originally posted by Pleather Sole
                              For the record, my jest request was to tuck it under but I do appreciate the extra information about never tucking it in.
                              Look at these mother tuckers workin it out!
                              Way to go PS and Jee

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                              • Grantysghost
                                Bouncing Strong
                                • Apr 2010
                                • 18820

                                Re: Welcome to the Bulldogs: Bailey Smith

                                Originally posted by Pleather Sole
                                For the record, my jest request was to tuck it under but I do appreciate the extra information about never tucking it in.
                                She puts the lotion on her skin...
                                BT COME BACK!​

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